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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get a good vibrator[/quote]
+1 your DH also has a mouth and hands.  Unless he is paralyzed or is in constant pain, he should be able to do *something*.   Your situation sucks, but "in sickness and in health" are in the vows, at least they were in my vows.

If you otherwise have a good marriage, I wouldn't risk it.[/quote]

And then when it's over he is just left there with...what?[/quote]
? A satisfied wife?  However an O is achieved, if it is achieved, then it's something.

I think the situation is horrible, but unless he is paralyzed and unwilling to have sex in other ways, and if they have an otherwise good marriage, I think OP is risking it. I guess if she thinks PIV is waay more important than her marriage, then ok.

Sex is an important part of marriage, but so is love and commitment. If a spouse can't deal with non PIV sex due to health reasons, and the marriage is otherwise good, then IMO, that spouse is selfish, man or woman.

If they just feel like they are friends and roommates, then OP should be able to have an honest discussion with her DH about it.[/quote]You missed my point completely.  I concede, he probably knows how to get her off without his D.  And good for her if they work that out.  What about him?  Can you imagine how much worse you would feel after that?  All these posters saying he should just give her oral, etc. really don't understand.  He's lost his ability to engage in sex so he isn't going to do something that makes his situation even worse for him.  There is nothing wrong with his head where he wouldn't get as sexually aroused as before, and now he can't do anything and she can't do anything for him.  Does that sound like fun to you?[/quote]
You have even less perspective.

How would OP's DH feel if she stepped out on him? Do you honestly think he'd prefer she get it elsewhere vs it being one way with her?[/quote]

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