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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] A thread about “cheating” which ignores the #1 cause (a disinterested wife) requires at least one post to bring this back to reality. 
Those vows are bidirectional. The promise of sexual fidelity comes with a promise of sexual availability. Forsaking all others is only possible between sexually active lovers. If your going to post about cheating, you must first know if they have a normal active sex life (unlikely). And if you aren’t interested in regular sex with your husband, you should divorce him... otherwise look the other way.[/quote]

You keep posting your “facts” about most cheating resulting from sexless marriages.  Please, for once, cite some reputable sources on this.  The truth is that there are many men and women who cheat despite the fact that they are still having sex with their spouse.  These people cheat because they are liars and they think they can get away with it, it’s as simple as that.[/quote]
This is a thread about men (not women) who cheat. And the well proven fact is, MOST married men cheat for one simple reason: [b]to get more sex[/b] which the wife does not want to have. I never claimed that "some" married men with reasonable sex at home never cheat: yes, that does happen, but is a tiny minority case barely worth having a thread. I would agree with your explanation (liars, can get away with it, etc) of those few cheating men, but again that's such a small number of men why even discuss that while ignoring the #1 reason entirely?

As to citations:  [b]23.2% of attached men cheat [/b] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21667234   and about [b]20% of marriages are sexless[/b] according to many studies https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexless_marriage.  It is not rocket science to see that most of these cheating men are in a sexless marriage.[/quote]

No it is not a fact, let alone a "well proven" one, as if you could ever possibly ever prove anything like this.

You don't really know how tiny or large the group of men is who have reasonable sex lives at home but still cheat.

And you most certainly don't know about the number of men who simply don't wish to have sex with their wives anymore due to boredom, lack of attraction, etc.  I mean it's not enough for someone to be willing to have sex, you have to find them attractive first.  [/quote]

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