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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone, the troll has spoken with his 100% unassailable "facts".  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  And sexless marriages are 100% the wife's fault, absolutely NO fault lies with the husband. And so, you know, as a result the poor, amazing, wonderful husband just has to cheat.

And yes, the wives of all of those amazing men literally grabbed their dicks and stuffed them into the vaginas of other women.

The REASON for cheating is the cheater making the decision to cheat. Period.
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I did not ascribe any blame or fault of sexless marriage. I am simply pointing out that [b]most men who cheat do so because of a sexless marriage[/b]. It is disingenuous to discuss cheating men without acknowledging this crucial fact. It implies that the wife is unaware, plays no role, is an innocent victim, wishes he were not cheating etc. But actually the sexless wife wants to stay married while not having (much) sex, and the ONLY possible way that can work is if the man is going elsewhere for sex. In other words, the REASON for cheating is that THE WIFE WANTS HIM TO CHEAT. This is the majority of cheating husband scenarios. And yet this thread focuses on some exceptionally rare case of an asshole selfish man who cheats despite an active sex life at home with his wife.[/quote]

The thing is, you don't really know why most men cheat.  Some may cheat due to a sexless marriage, sure.  But just as many or more may cheat simply out of desire for variety.  I've slept with many married men in my misspent youth.  To a man, they reported that the wife is willing but they've lost interest because they don't want to sleep with the same woman for years, and they had options not to do so.    Two had babies not long after our liaisons.  So as much as it pains your argument, you want to consider that many men are either having sex at home AND outside the home, or COULD but having sex with their wives but prefer not to due to boredom.  I mean wouldn't YOU be bored by the same body for thirty years, no matter how willing? Well they were too.[/quote]

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