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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Are you married and don't want a normal active sex life with your spouse? Get a divorce. Don't want a divorce? Then look the other way.

The entitlement of some people is shocking. Sorry, but just No: you do not get to stay sexlessly married AND call your normal libido partner a cheater for saving YOUR marriage by getting sex elsewhere. [/quote]

You've been argued down on your philosophy on literally every single thread you post on.  The overwhelming consensus is that you are passive aggressive and incapable of taking responsibility for your own actions.  No one wants to date or marry someone who lives by the philosophy of "you do something I perceive is wrong, then I'm going to do something just as heinous to you, and then blame YOU for it when I'm found out."  You have bad communication and coping skills.  Adulting is hard.  Marriage is hard.  You are not equipped for either if you live your life this way.  This is almost certainly why your wife isn't having sex with you.  You are incapable of taking responsibility for your own actions, and this is why you've been taking your aggression out on an anonymous chat forum for months and months.

Have you ever considered trying to address the issues that are making you so bitter? Go to therapy.  If your wife won't go with you, go alone.

[b]My prediction is that you'd rather just marinate in your anger, and you will still be here and sexless next year.[/b] 
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I have to agree with this prediction, not because I think angry sexless guy doesn't have a point that sometimes cheating has its root cause in sexual denial, but because he doesn't have the guts to actually cheat which is why he is mad.  I say this as a man who cheated, absolutely due to continued, years long rejection, and can tell you cheating is a band aid, not some magic quid pro quo that he makes it out to be.  I would much, much rather be in a healthy sexual relationship with my wife.[/quote]

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