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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Seriously something wrong with somebody that has to hide their whereabouts from a spouse.

Get a tile and put it in his car.[/quote]

Why not then put a keylogger on his computer, and a hidden camera in your bedroom? Inject him with sodium pentothal and grill him on everything? Where does it end? Either you trust or you don't. If you don't, your marriage is already over in spirit. If you secretly take drastic measures, and he finds out, it might well be over legally as well. I know I would divorce over this. [/quote]

If you trust your spouse you will trust they are not tracking your every move. If you can’t trust them your marriage is already over.

I’d divorce your paranoid batshit crazy self.[/quote]

+1 I would not put up with this behavior and personally I would divorce over it. I would be more bothered by constantly being monitored than a spouse cheating on me. I would not necessarily divorce over cheating but I would divorce over someone needing to control me and knowing my whereabouts all of the time. I am a grown woman. Not a child. People have no freedom or privacy anymore. If I am out at the gym, mall or whatever, no one needs to know when I get there and when I leave. [b]The idea of being accessible to anyone 24-7 made me delay getting a cell phone in the early 2000s[/b]. Just being able to be called on my own time alone bothered me. Now it is out of control. I do not share my location with anyone and do not like to be bothered out of the house unless it is an emergency. This invasiveness today is ridiculous.[/quote]

Do you think you are a normal, middle-of-the-road sane person?  :lol: [/quote]

New poster and I totally agree with the PP and also delayed getting a phone when they came out for the same reason.  And I see no difference between being tracked by location vs having a key logger installed to track what I do on line. It's fine if other couples feel differently, not my marriage[/quote]

That is insane to say your spouse knowing you are at the mall and logging every keystroke is the same.

It's also bizarre that you don't want your spouse to know you are at the mall, do you have a shopping addiction?[/quote]

If he asks where I've been, I will tell him. I will not permit technology to play Big Brother in my marriage. See the difference?[/quote]

No. Why is he asking you where you have been, that is very invasive. Doesn't he trust you, does he track your every move.

See how ridiculous that sounds. Just because the find a friend is on your phones does not mean they are tracking your every move. If you are married to somebody that would track your every move, you have more problems than your iphone. [/quote]

He is asking about my day, because he loves me and is interested in my life. He asks "what did you do today?", not "where were you", and then I mention where I went and what I did.  See the difference? You seem a little dim. [/quote]

and I check his locations so I can make sure his martini is ready when he walks in the door and do not interrupt his conference call. See the difference? You seem paranoid and dim.[/quote]

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