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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. I was in this exact situation exactly 10 years ago.

I would not move for the SO. He moved to Florida. I felt we should break up. But he convinced me to get married. I had doubts the entire time.

I moved after the wedding. Biggest regret of my life. That was in 2009. I was extremely unhappy very quickly. Yes, I was working. I wanted out at 6 months in. My mom said give it another year. Stupid. I gave it one more year and ended up accidentally pregnant with once and a blue moon sex--the first time unprotected in my life. I was in my early 30s. I was trapped. I could not leave. It took 8 more years to get back to DC. Too much resentment. I have now been trying to get divorced for almost two years. What a waste of all this time due to a stupid move I never wanted to do.

My advice: leave now. Move back to D.C. Right now. Geography is a deal breaker. I was hesitant. I took a leap of faith, ignored my gut and was immediately miserable. Your gut is telling you that you are not happy. This is not a shared life. This is you moving in different directions. Dealbreaker. You do not want to be me in 10 years. [/quote]

If you were only having “once in a blue moon” sex, your problems clearly run deeper than Florida.  You had problems with your relationship and yourself.  [/quote]

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