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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I am not Jewish. I am black.[/b] I say that to say I can't speak for exactly how a Jewish person would feel about the statement. I can only speak for how I feel when someone says something similar to me. I would ask the speaker "What do you mean by that?" and see what comes next. My guess is that it won't be something good. When I've encountered similar statements, it is usually meant to be derogatory. If your Jewish friend has confided in you that he/she finds it insulting, you should be the brave and bold white person who is willing to take a position that will bring you discomfort for the good of all. The weight of addressing discriminatory/hurtful statements always falls on the person being singled out and they are left having to navigate addressing the disrespect, their hurt feelings and self esteem and then having to defend against a typical white person who will rudely push back if they are called out on their bigoted behavior. It will be all about that person's feelings on being called a bigot instead of the person they actually offended. Please, stand up for your Jewish friend and call the other person out on their unacceptable comments. Right now, you can hide and ignore the rude comments because they don't affect you. By the way, if you've ever wondered what white privilege is and if you have it, this is one of those situations. [/quote] Are you saying black people can't be Jews? WTF? Have you ever heard about the rescrue of Ethiopian Jews? ALthough I guess this gets to the point about what does "looking Jewish" mean? So, yes, of course it's offensive in any context, since it presumably refers to stereotypical physical characteristics. [/quote]
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