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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While I'm with all of you who say, "well, if he's the type to ghost, then he's not worth it anyway" sort of thing, but this kind of behavior does make it less fun to date and makes me more cynical about dating.

Like, why should I bother going on say, five or six dates with someone, spend the time, money, and energy, open myself up to physical intimacy and all of its risks and responsibilities, and yes, begin to form an emotional bond with someone when I know that at any moment they could just ditch with no explanation? And I have to be okay with that?  
This kind of thing makes me want to just curl up in a ball in front of Netflix with my dog and be single forever.

I hate, hate, HATE ghosting and the lack of accountability and decency it shows. It rewards people for being cool and detached, and I don't believe that is a good thing. Is it such a horrible thing that I can't force myself to have a "whatever" attitude?[/quote]

It is one of the reasons I slow down physical intimacy.  If I get ghosted for not sleeping together on date 3 so be it.[/quote]

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