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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"No thanks."  She doesn't owe him a reason why. If she wants, she can (quietly, so as not to embarrass him) say "I don't think we like each other in the same way."

But "No" is actually a complete sentence.[/quote]

She could also throw in a “but I’m really flattered you asked.” Softens the blow a bit[/quote]

Is she flattered, OP? Then why lie? What are you teaching your boys and girls??![/quote]

OMG, get a grip.  Of course it’s flattering to be asked, regardless of your gender.  Why on earth are you so hostile?[/quote]

DP  It isn't flattering if you don't like the boy! Or girl[/quote]

He might just be asking her because they’re friends - plenty of kids go with a date who is just a friend. At any rate, of course it’s nice when someone thinks highly enough to invite you to a dance (or anywhere).  Why are you determined to make the person asking look and feel like an idiot?  Would your advice be the same if a girl invited the boy and he didn’t want to go with her? [/quote]

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