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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is it about the rough sex fantasy?  Being overcome physically? Uncontrollable desire for you? 
Do you envision a larger, more muscular man?
It’s a hot fantasy and it’s been mentioned a few times. Confess your secrets, sexy anonymous women.[/quote]

NP, I didn't post the original. But for me, it is part of the giving up of control. Yes, I want my SO to have an uncontrollable desire for me (who doesn't want that???), having a man TAKE what he WANTS from me (rather than asking and tiptoeing around). It's about passion! I want my man to take control, take me, want me, and demand from me, and leave me at his mercy. It's the exact opposite of driving the kids to swim practice, of making dinner every night, of making sure all the forms for school are signed and bills are paid. It's the ZING that keeps things from being routine. It counteracts the responsiblity you have on the job, as a mother, as a neighbor and member of a community.

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I've had the importance of consent drilled into me too much to make that happen for my wife. Consent must be enthusiastic and continuous. Absence of "no" doesn't equal consent, and it can be withdrawn at any time. [/quote]

I get that. But you can talk about it ahead of time. And she's your wife. So talk about the fantasy, see if she's game. And if she says no, then stop.[/quote]

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