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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have social anxiety and can relate. Yes - if you can try to switch her schedule around that would be great but if not you really need to get her to see a professional about her social anxiety. Even if her classes get switched, you should still help her out. This is just one year that her schedule is like this, maybe next year she will have classes with her friends. [b]What will happen when she goes off to college and doesn't go to the same school as her friends? [/b] What about after that when she starts a job where none of her friends work at?[/quote] A lot of people have brought up the question of "what about when she goes to college?" I feel like that is different because she will be around a group of the same people often in a very social environment such as her Freshman dorm, possibly a sorority, etc. HS is different because she's not in a sport or activity like marching band where she has consistent social interaction with the same group of kids. Her school is huge, and has a lot of different lunch sections,so even if she becomes friendly with someone in her French class, she most likely won't have any other classes or lunch with her. It just seems like she doesn't have The opportunity to spend time with a specific group of people for her to really get to know them, which is what she needs to come out of her shell and make friends. [/quote] Op, your theory may be correct. However, there's nothing you can do about it. Honestly, just think forward to next semester even (forget college for now). Will you ask the school to reschedule AGAIN? Each and every semester of HS? If she wants consistency, she needs to join a sport or a group, not have her mom reschedule her classes so she can be with friends. [/quote]
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