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[quote=Anonymous]OP I get you. My BIL and his family are moochers too. Every time we go out to eat with my DH’s family, were either expected to pay, or my MIL hands my DH the bill with a credit card for “her half.” If we ever try to do something for his parents alone, they manipulate the situation into including his brother’s family. It’s beyond frustrating. Yes, we have no control over how they choose to spend their money. But if we pay for them, and they turn around and pay for brother’s family, then essentially we have just paid for brother’s family. They are unwilling to exclude them, so sadly we just do less with them. They have enabled this 42 yo man child (who, not surprisingly, has money to go out on his own if we decide we’re not interested in going out and paying). All you can do is drop the rope. My MIL is annoyed they see us less, but she made her choices. [/quote]
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