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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. OP: You very obviously need mental health assistance. This degree of anxiety about something that doesn't matter at all is just not healthy. More importantly, you are going to seriously damage your child.

Think about it this way: What is the worst thing that happens? Your kid gets kicked out of school (very unlikely)? Then send her to public. Done. Even the worst case scenario, getting kicked out of kindergarten (very unlikely), has literally no negative effects on the rest of your life.

Also, be a grown up. You can tell your 5 year old what to do. If you need to aim for 30 minutes early to normally be on time? Make it happen. Can't drop her off until 10 minutes early? Park a few streets away or drive in circles for 20 minutes. Done.[/quote]

I've been having that conversation with DH. But the school is off a highway with nowhere to park nearby. We're not in DC anymore and my crutches don't work here (yes, I would usually park at a park for 20 minutes).

I'm in therapy, but she agrees DD is too big to carry around and force to do things. So I end up wondering how I'm supposed to control other people. [/quote]

Your therapist has her work cut out for her.[/quote]

People like you are why I don't bother trying to make friends anymore. And why I quit therapy more than I'm in it. I know the therapist doesn't want to help and is only in it for the money. Do you understand how humiliating that is?[/quote]

OP, I've made suggestions for solutions, solutions for making school work, suggestions to let go of your unreasonable concerns.  You've ignored every suggestion.  You don't want to hear it.

Good luck.  When you're ready to hear suggestions, we are here.  [/quote]

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