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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this is obviously passing thought. Because you have a 3 year old and a 3 month old. OF COURSE it's unbelievably difficult now. Come back and post in 2 years. [/quote]

It is a feeling. My kids are 3 and 5 and I still resent having them. Its destroying my marriage because DH knows I resent having kids. I count down until they go to bed, I wake up early and go to work so I dont have to deal with them and I dread leaving the office to pick them up. Its non stop fighting, whining, complaining. I can't even have a conversation with my husband without nonstop interruptions. If I could go back in time to when I met my DH, I would say that kids would not be happening. I'm bitter about all we could do since we make over $300k a year and I piss it away on daycare and their needs. I hate weekends, I hate evenings...so dont tell OP to come back in two years. [/quote]

Honest question, why did you have kids?[/quote]

Honestly, I truly didn't think enough about how it would change my life. I do love my kids, and I did post the above on a Sunday night which is always dark for me because I've dealt with them all weekend, and I just want a break. I think it'll get easier as my youngest gets older, shes a handful. [/quote]

I feel the same way.  Love my kids but on a Sunday or after a few days with them I am so unhappy.

Most people have kids and I truthfully only heard good things about having a family.  I of course had heard how painful childbirth can be and that you don’t get a lot of sleep.  But besides that, no one told me that my only happy hours will be when my children are napping or asleep.  
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