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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's what I would do. I would tell DH that you understand his struggle but that you can't subject your little one to the risk. So then you say you and DD will move out for a month or two to somewhere close by while DH lives with DSS alone. DH still gets to see DD regularly etc. I'd say this is for 4 or 8 weeks, but if DSS doesn't meet X criteria, you won't move back in. Maybe without other people there DH and DSS will do better anyhow.

It's a loving solution to a terrible problem. [/quote]

Bad idea. It would be much better for dad and son to move into an apartment together. Once the son is doing better the dad can move out and son can get s roommate.

If OP leaves her house, she’s never moving back in because the son is going to be the exact same in 2 months as today. The dad needs to move out and focus on his son until he sees that he can’t help him. He needs the apartment alone with his so with no one else to blame. He’s used to blaming his ex wife for everything going wrong with his son - if OP is living with them,  I guarantee everything will become her fault. The son and dad will keep living in this delusion fantasy world until the dad has no one left to blame.

OP, don’t move out. Tell your DH to get a 2bdrm with his son so he can give him his undivided attention and help him through the recovery. This is the only way to open his eyes about his son. [/quote]

This actually seems like the best idea [/quote]

Yep. Agreed. And this option is better than the efficiency with son living there solo. At this point, Dad need to actually be there and be able confirm things are going okay before there is any possibility of son moving into the family house.[/quote]

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