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[quote=Anonymous] I'm baffled that you would think leaving a teen home alone while you travel is a good idea, op. I also noticed that you said your wife was cold to your teen, coupled with this same teen discovering your wife's affair. You have an odd mix of treating her like a child "refusing to discuss the affair" along with very adult responsibilities, leaving her home alone or with "friends" while you are on travel. I think I'm wondering where your basic instinct as a father went... I may be one of the few on here who doesn't begrudge you adult companionship. While we're on that topic, I'd get divorced. The paramour clause you are so worried about won't prevent you from remarrying, once a divorce is final, you can marry the day you get the papers. Also, the quality of women you date will go up if you are single. You are setting yourself up to look like a horn dog, especially if you are meeting women online, the internet is full of men who are "separated." Never forget that gay and lesbian people fought for and won the right to marry during a time when society tells us that marriage doesn't matter. You try to portray yourself as a kind and understanding guy "I'm not a monster". Either vector that kindness and understand towards your wife and really try to stay together, or divorce and put that kindness and understanding towards a new partner. Nobody wants to be in a relationship where their partner's love, kindness and open mind are directed towards an ex. [/quote]
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