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[quote=Anonymous]to me it is more internal vs external locus of control  - some people have to always blame someone else for their failures.

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Relevant to this thread, and written by a woman:

https://www.mindingthecampus.org/2019/04/17/a-fantasy-for-the-sexes/?fbclid=IwAR0J4FwW-i5ZfTijKrkiBQEop41i8aBDCnOQKsbH_fgCzhx2zGLuYh7_XCk[/quote]

Wow, what a bunch of garbage! Hilarious. [/quote]

hits a little too close to home, eh? Especially:

[quote]At home and on the job, men are reminded of their emotional inferiority and verbal inadequacy. Nowhere are they as quick as women in their emotional responses, their verbalization of those responses, or their acuity in gauging the dynamics of interaction or situation. And constantly they are reminded of this disadvantage. Women berate them, browbeat them, even physically attack them out of frustration at these characteristics.

Somehow it is always men who are to blame.[b] Even in the schoolyard, little boys suffer from puzzlement, pain, and ostracism as little girls make comments and express expectations boys cannot quite grasp or respond to. Thus, boys are trained into a lifelong awareness of inferiority.  At home, mothers demand expression of their sons’ and husbands’ feelings and berate them when they are confused and reticent.  At work, women exchange knowing smiles signifying that   men ‘Just don’t get it.”[/b][/quote][/quote]
DP.... LOL... that's a lot of whining, and the bolded is BS.  I tell my both my kids to own up to their own actions and feelings, and stop blaming others for their own failures, and I especially tell both of them to stop whining.

Thank goodness my DH is not a whiner and doesn't blame anyone else for any of his shortcomings (and yes, same thing goes for me).  Such a turn off in a grown man.

-signed mom of a boy and girl[/quote][/quote]

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