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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are discounting several important factors:

- the trauma caused to your son by divorcing your DH. look up any of the research on this 
- you say he’s a good dad.  This is invaluable and means more than money.  The most important thing your child needs is two loving parents. Divorcing  will create upheaval, stress, and undermine your DH’s ability to be a good dad. Study after study show importance of having a strong father figure. This DOES NOT mean money maker.  You are lucky your son has a good dad. 
- you think your life will be better after a divorce. Because you think a ton of men are clamoring after a 50 year old woman with a SN child  and baggage from her previous marriage? 
- lastly , I just don’t get it. Your post treats your DH as if his sole function is income generation. Do you even like him? I just don’t get it. If my DH was a super low income earner I’d still love him and stick by him. The world doesn’t owe you a millionaire  [/quote]
Yes, to a lot of this. 
But I have zero interest in a new relationship. None. So that doesn’t even factor in. 
And yes- I don’t want a millionaire. I just don’t want to have less to give my son because of his liabilities. 
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You’re not thinking rationally. If you’re divorced, you two will collectively have less to give him.  How about giving your son an example of parents sticking together, you know for richer and for poorer and all that? I’m sure your son would NOT want you to divorce. [/quote]

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