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Reply to "DH can't balance work and family. What should I do?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am trying. I have decided to extend my stay with family.[b] I was going to come back early so we could all do something together. [/b]I am working on finding a therapist who can help me with this issue. I want to make sure. I am not being reasonable and fair. Just really feel at a loss t this point [/quote] Stop setting yourself up for failure. You know perfectly well that if you come back early, he won't have time or will be annoyed. So don't. You're not unreasonable to want to see more of your husband, but you are unreasonable for continuing to ask for things you know he won't give. Stop doing all this work of reaching out, nagging him, trying to get him to do stuff with you, and let him see what it feels like to miss his family, rather than feel like his family is a source of nagging. Either he'll realize that he doesn't want to live that way, or you'll realize he really doesn't care. [/quote]
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