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[quote=Anonymous]Certainly parties are for the person being celebrated.

It is also true that a good host helps everyone to feel included. So if one of my most favorite things was Karaoke, I might skip it if my bridesmaids were tone deaf, sound sensitive, or had tinnitus. I’d enjoy myself more knowing that my guests were comfortable and happy too, so given that there are lots of things I love doing, I’d choose a least a couple of activities that felt a little more inclusive. Besides which, I’m the kind of person who tends to want to have a party that’s different from the ones that the guests have been to before. Now that I’m in my late 30’s, there’s no way my wedding would look the same if I planned it today, versus when I was in my mid-20’s. My interests have evolved so much, and my priorities have changed.

All of that said, if the bride has already done her planning and the email chains have started, there’s no righting this ship. The messy bachelorette party is going down. Perhaps recommend good restaurants or chill clubs to go to? [/quote]

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