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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the mother of 5 blessings I can tell you that somehow things work out and blessings are just that, "blessings." I have a friend who aborted their first child, they weren't ready. Then they had another girl. She grew up with a great resentment toward her parents because they had "killed" her older sister. Today she will not speak to them so in a sense they lost both children. This new member of your family has contributions to make and a life to live within the family structure. I share this story that was shared with me. Hi.. I encountered this short story and wanted to share with you : A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said: 'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year old and I'm pregnant again. I don't want kids so close together.' So the doctor said: 'Ok and what do you want me to do?' She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.' The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you too.' She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request. Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care of 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.' The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!' 'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be OK with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution.' The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point. He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb. I pray that you and your family will prosper and experience peace and joy.[/quote] :roll: :roll: :roll: [/quote]
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