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Reply to "unplanned pregnancy - fourth kid potentially - impact on marriage/relationship"
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[quote=Anonymous]The fact that it's not planned is a strike against keeping. You would have planned a kid if you proactively wanted. Now that it is in your hands, can you afford it and the life you want? Do you like chaos brought by a big family? What is the impact on your marriage and family to have these changes? What are the costs and benefits to your kids in terms of time and energy in their lives? If you have two kids from a previous marriage what will it mean for them? I would do anything possible to have yet another broken home for them personally, they need stability. I would focus less on the lack of planning and more on the number and real impact of more kids.[/quote]
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