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Reply to "At a loss- spouse openly disregarded my wishes on something"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women need to learn that their polite deference to their husbands will rarely go reciprocated, because frankly, men aren’t that self-sacrificing.[/quote] Yes, this. I think a lot of men, at least for honor's sake will sacrifice a lot in "life-or-death" type scenarios, but very few men are "all in" enough to sacrifice something they really want for the basic day-to-day benefit/well being of their wives/marriage or families, or for say, a wife's career. OP, if you want to stay married to this guy, you are probably going to have invest household resources in getting help for yourself, and stop deferring to him for things he doesn't want to do. My sympathies though. It really sucks that the person who is supposed to be your partner in life doesn't actually want to be a partner.[/quote]
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