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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, some good suggestions.  To answer a few questions:

No, she wasn't my first, not even close.  I had lots of experience, she had some too probably similar.  Sex was plentiful early, dropped down to 2-3x a week before kids but still adventerous enough and that frequency is totally fine by me.

Once the newborn came, it died down to 1-2x a month.  I have put up with this for 10+ years because in my mind it was all temporary.  Just the pregnancy/ newborn/ toddler/ elementary school years.  Or she was on birth control, maybe if I got snipped, which I did.  But yet no real uptake.

At the risk of being arrogant,[b] it's not me as I am in shape, successful, conventionally attractive, wear nice clothes to work and all that.[/b]  That I get a fair amount of female attention helps sooth the wife's rejection.

I don't feel trapped, I could leave tomorrow but I don't want to shred my family up over this.  I sometimes wonder if women like my wife just assume I will cheat and if they are fine with that, sort of turning a blind eye and keeping up the lifestyle rather than have sex they don't want to have.  Its a dangerous question to ask, but at the same time, she is smart enough to know 2x a month duty sex is pathetic and will make a man's eye wander.

One post upstream asked a good question, whether anyone has actually counselled or talked or ultimatmed their partner back into a healthy sex life.  I am interested as well if that is even possible.

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Uh, this does not mean you're good in bed. You can always up your game. Guys who think they're God's gift to women rarely know or even truly try how to make a woman happy in bed. All this whining about women not wanting it enough, what have you done that would incline her to want it? If sex is [i]good[/i] you want it. If it's meh, especially if you're a working wife with kids, you probably don't. [/quote]

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