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[quote=Anonymous][quote]When he was rough with our preschooler, I told him if he did anything remotely like that again I'd leave and take the kids. I've also told him *he* needs to leave if he can't get the anger and abuse under control. Other than that, I haven't threatened divorce. He's the one who brings it up occasionally, and accuses me of working behind the scenes to ensure I get full custody. Meanwhile he's been "documenting" our conversations (inaccurately). I've done nothing of the sort. I didn't want to get divorced. I wanted him to stop being abusive. He convinced the cop he spoke with that he was the aggrieved party, so she suggested he get a camera to protect himself. Let me amend my thought on the camera - I don't want to do the camera thing really, but if he has camera footage that shows what HE wants it to show, then I probably should too...?[/quote] Lady, he is setting you up. You need a lawyer TODAY, immediately. Get off here and get working on that. I would do whatever I needed to do to make sure he's not alone with the kids - not just because he seems a danger to them, but he is well-aware that they are the best leverage to use against you. I hate to sound crazy town, but he sounds so plotting and manipulative that I could see him leaving with the kids. Once you enter proceedings, try to keep all personal contact to an absolute minimum. And start marshaling trusted support. I think you are going to need it.[/quote]
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