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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] NP here, but I would like someone to talk about the future with, fantasize about what we will do after the kids leave, save some money for a cabin on a lake, etc. I feel like we used to do that all of the time before we got married. I remember we spent months planning our honeymoon. [/quote] Yep that too. Cooking weekend meals together or working together in the yard. Instead he comes home watches TV and wants to do it. Anything else is like pulling a tree out of the ground by its leaves.[/quote] I feel a little like your husband. I can't plan without thinking about how much it's going to cost. Life in general seems a little washed out and joyless. I wouldn't go so far as to call it a "crisis" or "depression," but there's definitely some kind of mid-life ennui going on. [/quote] Yeah. Maybe it is a mid life thing. DH just turned 40. I think that he is worried that he is going to die young and there is just no point in talking about the future. I have to admit that it makes life a bit joyless for me too. [/quote]
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