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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A couple days ago. I left my abusive relationship 3 years ago and did a ton of therapy and self work to heal. Ex was charged, and had supervised access with kids which he quit and he did not speak to the kids for 1.5yrs. He decided he wants access and a formal evaluation was done. The assessor sees him as no threat to the kids and he will get them for full weekends. Said all the abuse and assault to me and kids was due to 'conflict' between us. I feel so sick and wish I hadn't left him. Life with him was nightmare hell but there's no worse feeling than knowing now my kids have to go back into it alone. I don't know how to cope with this. Now he will freely be able to abuse them and always fall back on being assessed as no threat. [/quote] You left and are now in a place where you can be a safe haven when you DO have the kids. This wouldn't have been the case if you stayed. I've been here, OP. It is so damn heartbreaking and hard. You did the right thing by leaving. I promise. [/quote]
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