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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey, all y’all SAHs reporting you’d immediately leave. I call BS.

Reported cheat rates are what, 50%?

This ain’t Anna Karenina times. Stop with the drama. You process, you decide to stay or go.

What’s hard here is that the kid caught the Dad. The dad lied to the kid. She’s still believing in that idyllic Disney world where no one cheats and it’s butterfly love forever. She may have read about Hester Prynne, she’s not old enough to understand probability and stats, etc...

Anyone ready to quit a solid marriage over infidelity in 2019 is insane in my book. To me, not at all a deal breaker. [/quote]

It's a deal breaker for sure. One can still stay, fake it...making your life about your kids, pets, and friends. At that point who cares about the cheater. While everyones situation is different often a cheater is not worth all the turmoil. Maybe worth it hoping they don't live too long. Not every victim of cheating is wanting to find another relationship.

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