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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He only apologized as he was forced into it.  There is probably no sincerity in it and he'd still be cheating if he didn't get caught (or probably still is cheating).  You are siding with him fully to save your marriage.  No one is addressing the kids needs as he's playing right into exactly what you want to hear and him to do.  This probably wasn't the first affair.[/quote]

Exactly. She has no intention of divorcing him, maybe she ran the financials. If my husband cheated at this point in our life I wouldn't divorce him because of the lifestyle and retirements. It would change our future a lot. However he'd be nothing to me except a roommate.

The kids will never see him the same, do all the therapy you want..that won't change. He owns destroying the lack of respect his daughters have. I would want to know who this woman is that was so special to destroy all that. You can bet I would confront her, and confirm it was over. In most cases (not all) therapy is just a Pass Go card for the cheater. He doesn't want a divorce, so it allows him to do his "penance" to keep the wife from filing.

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+1 to everything here

I hope all the posters with APs and kids take a look[/quote]

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