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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A couple of things:

1. You had their entire relationship to speak up about the bigotry of his family and you didn’t. You’ve never spoken up regarding the hateful things her future FIL says. Are you sure you didn’t raise her condone bigotry? Because what you’ve admitted shows you, yourself, are a coward who condones bigotry.

2. You’re focusing on her husband and in laws, but you need to admit that our choices reflect who we are. Your daughter’s moral compass was skewed long before this. That is why she chose who she did and is adopting their views.

It’s all a bit late at this point. This is where cowardice gets you. If you push back on her demands you all get along, you risk losing her and access to your future children. I think that, to the degree you intend to be a good influence on future grandchildren (as opposed to teaching them to silently support racism and hatred, the way you taught your daughter by example), then you should keep quiet and focus on building a strong relationship with your grandkids. You missed the mark with your daughter.[/quote]

Assume, much?
God, you're a sanctimonious asshole.[/quote]

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