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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok Gone Girl
Enjoy your trainwreck[/quote]

You realize Gone Girl is about a batshit wife, right?[/quote]
Yes I do but you have it covered so well. So just Bat shit crazy “friend”[/quote]

I’m not the one flipping my shit on DCUM about someone else’s platonic relationship.[/quote]

NP here. No but you are on DCUM flipping your shit about someone else’s marriage and [b]frankly you don’t understand rank. The wife comes first. [/b]

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Yeah, I agree with the pp who said that you don't understand rank.  In your mind, friends and spouses rank the same but that is not true for most people.  We love our friends and we care about them but we are committed to our spouses and we actually do answer to our spouses.  Friends just don't have the same level of skin in the game.  Not even close.[/quote]

Okay then, great rank guru... please explain to me how his wife should rank over me in my own life?

I mean, my brother is in the military and outranks me There, but he still has to help with the dishes when he visits and I make dinner. BecUse his rank means FA to me in terms of our relationship. Just like the “ranks” of my friend’s spouses mean nothing to me. That’s their relationship to negotiate. [/quote]

I'm starting to see why wife doesn't like you.  No boundaries.[/quote]

You have weird and scary projection issues, considering I am just responding on this thread, but can’t think of a single friend IRL whose spouse seems to hate me because of my sex.

I’m going to go out on a limb and suspect you have issues with all the relationships in your life, and it’s never you that’s the problem. [/quote]

Haha! Someone is projecting and it's not me. Never said men can't have female friends. But I can see a wife having problem with a friend like you who thinks she's equal to the wife.[/quote]

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