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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think that I would feel comfortable hanging out with a married guy whose wife hated me.  That just sounds like a really bad idea and when their marriage blows up, as it almost certainly will, I would not want either one of them to point the finger of blame in my direction.

Send cards and talk to them openly on Facebook.[/quote]

+1 but exceptions made for friendships that pre-date the marriage. I wouldn't abandon a lifelong friend because their spouse hated me but I would not start a friendship with a guy who was married who's SO hated me.[/quote]

I don't think it matters actually.  Who cares if you knew the guy before he married his wife?  He still married HER.  That is the one he is committed to and if she hates your guts, doesn't want you to hang out with him and he knew that when he married her....he really should not be getting together with you.[/quote]

Well that is a decision he can make. If I had such a friendship and he distances himself from me I would respect that. But if he wanted to continue the friendship and was fine facing the consequences at home than that is his business. I'm not doing anything wrong by continuing to be friends with someone I've known longer than she has.

You can believe that HE is doing something wrong by pursueing a friendship that is hurting his marriage but I don't see how you put that on the friend who has no obligations or loyalty to the spouse. [/quote]

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