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[quote=Anonymous]OP - stop reacting to every accusation/post. You come off as very insecure. There are people here that have no lives and invade almost every thread. One is the "it's a troll" poster. Just ignore and move on.

Here is another thought (the cpap post was good advice):

A child put a new dynamic and news stresses on both parents. Often times the H tries to help but gets corrected by W. He stress that he can't get anything right. Consciously or subconsciously, she gets left with the majority of the child responsibilities. He's resentful that she made him feel useless and she's resentful that he's not helping. This spirals and they wind up in a shitty place. Sometimes, due to the added burden, you are rejecting sex/advances ("Are you kidding me with that, I'm exhausted"). More rejection and another blow to the ego. H retreats. You might not have even recognized the rejection or how often it was happening.

Sometimes you just need to hit a reset button. IMO, the best way to do that is get someone that can watch your child for a long weekend or preferably a week and go somewhere that all you have to worry about is each other. Rediscover what made you get married. After you get back, talk about issues and vow never to let each other fall into those holes. Promise that if something is bothering you or him, you will raise it and there will be no judgement, no anger, only listening by the other side.[/quote]

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