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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you being fixated on the clean laundry needing a place to go (the couch, the foot of the bed) that isn't in the closet or a dresser is very indicative of your entire problem with maintaining a clean house.  Yes, daily chores suck, but laundry isn't actually done until it's folded and put away.  Just washing it does not mean you've done the laundry.  Do the job completely, and you are making less work for yourself because you don't have to deal with the laundry sitting in piles reminding you of more annoying chores all week. [/quote]

I think the question is can her DH do the laundry? Even if he can’t handle the rest of the clutter, surely laundry is a discrete task he could take on - if he’s not willing to do that, or some of the household chores, that’s a problem. Sounds like OP has some hoarding tendencies, but he may have issues too. I’m sort of a neat freak, but with two kids, two jobs, it’s just not perfect all the time. I grew up in an exceedingly neat house - my mom can’t relax if even one thing is out of place or there’s a knife in the sink, and I don’t want to be like that either. Life’s too short.[/quote]

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