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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Trust me,  DH's wife is no saint.  She told the entire neighborhood her inaccurate version of events before I even moved here.   As a result,  my kids are often excluded from things like birthday parties and sleepovers, she's that petty and bitter.  She can't let go, and even flew out for a "weekend visit" with my in-laws last summer WITHOUT her kids.  You don't know the whole story and I'm not going to say more. [/quote]

The only reason there are events to dispute is that YOU CHOSE TO CHEAT.  All she has to tell people is that you chose to cheat.  It really makes no difference what else happened.  She might be the worst wife ever, yet still YOU made the CHOICE to have an affair.  And that will have consequences for your social relationships.  You need to have realistic expectations.  Not everyone is going to "let go" the instant you think they should.  What she is saying is probably just the truth as she sees it.  You just don't like to face it.

I think it's nice that she's maintaining a relationship with the grandparents of her children.  [/quote]

... and it’s quite telling that they’re happy to maintain a relationship with her even outside the grandkids.[/quote]

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