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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just found out I was the other woman when we met. He had a girlfriend of about a year when we met. He was seeing her until after our first date and then he broke up with her. I had zero clue about her then, and he apparently never thought to bring it up until I read him that stupid boyfriend/girlfriend thread. I think what’s bothering me most is 14 years later he doesn’t think he did anything wrong.  His excuse is “ we weren’t married  and he was young“ and when I pointed out he wasn’t that young ( 30 ) and  that I never overlapped even when young, he just said  “  it’s a  guy thing “  and he  “ never did it other times”. Like that was supposed to make me feel special! I asked him if he would have ended if he hadn’t met me and he just shrugged. He doesn’t see why I’m  upset and thinks I’m being silly. because it was so long ago and we’re happy together and have a life and family together, which is true. But if it was no big deal why didn’t he tell me years ago? Plus  this changes our whole story which I always thought was cute.  So am I being ridiculous ?  I’m not making him sleep on the couch or anything. I’m just mad.[/quote]

It's been a long time since this happened, after living with him this many years, do you think he is a bad person? (Outside of this piece of info). I think it's up to you how to feel about this, you can choose to be upset because it is wrong OR you consider what you've been through with him over 15 years maybe you can chalk it up to a mistake he made prior to finding you, his true love.[/quote]

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