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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, the fact that you are stable with a [b]paid off home and job [/b]and no baggage is a huge plus. I bet a lot of men will be drawn to that. Don't underestimate yourself.[/quote] That's not really a selling point to men age 40+. Most already have a home and would expect their future wife to either move in or buy one together. [/quote] It's a huge selling point because it's an indicator of financial stabiliyt and bringing something to the marriage. If a man had a nice home and she moved in, presumably she would sell her home, giving them a nice amount of money for their life together to do things or for retirement. [/quote] [b]I assume you're not a man. Her financial stability would be a (beyond) tertiary consideration[/b]. [/quote] Yep. Plus, finances are not something that come up early in a courtship situation anyway. (Ladies, do not assume because he has a fancy car and/or house he's got a lot of money or is financially stable - it's often not the case). [/quote]
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