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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once again, women are blaming women for men’s shortcomings.

Former strippers: I have no problem with what you do. I don’t think it makes you slutty. But those “frumpy” women- you have no idea what is going on in their marriage. Maybe he has a history of cheating, or maybe they are struggling to make ends meet and he’s blowing their money on you, or maybe he’s neglecting his kids. Maybe it is all harmless fun and she’s just insecure. But we all have issues, and we all want a partner who is able to see *our* needs rather than just their own. So maybe you can empathize with a woman who has vocalized something causes her pain, and her partner has decided to put his own desires first.

Wives/girlfriends: Blaming other women doesn’t work. Even if all the strippers suddenly disappeared from earth, your husband would still find a way to be a creep. If it’s that distasteful to you, remember that men only really understand consequences. My DH and all my former boyfriends knew that if they ever were to step foot in a strip club, the relationship would be over. No begging, pleading, yelling, counseling, or any other type of drama. I would pack my things and go. Sometimes I did. Sometimes they ended it because they didn’t want that restriction. That was fine with me. Instead of “I don’t like women who are a threat”, it needs to be “I don’t like men who make me feel threatened”.  [/quote]

Wow. Just...wow.[/quote]

I thought it was a good comment. Did you have an issue with it?[/quote]

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