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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This exact scenario is exactly why I will always work. [/quote]

Amen. [/quote]

Seriously.  If you have a dependent minor, you just cannot be a SAHM with no independent revenue stream *unless* your (current) DH is on board with realizing that you have some financial responsibility towards your son.  What happens if your ex loses his job?  Who will pay tuition next year?  Your current DH is a total jerk by the way but you are being completely irresponsible towards your son.. I feel badly for him that you can't even send him $100 when he worked over the summer, has an internship lined up and is clearly doing what he's been asked to do.  Your new kids with your 2nd husband have all their needs taken care of and you've just abandoned your first son.

I'm not saying you need to send him a lot of money but he does need to know you are there for him if he needs you.  You and your ex need to come to an agreement on what is reasonable for spending money and figure out a way to get there (job for your son, contributions by your ex and contributions by you).[/quote]

OMG you need to get a grip. He DOES have his “needs” taken care of! The stepfather even pays for a cell phone for him. And he had spending money, he just blew it all. Even with a meal plan.[/quote]

They probably have a family plan so the cell phone cost is minimal and at best its what $50 a month.  More than likely with a family of 4, having one extra child on the insurance makes no difference.  Kid needs spending money for basics like shampoo, toothpaste, going out every so often.  He may have blown his money getting bedding, books and all the other stuff you "need" for school.  1st year is expensive.[/quote]

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