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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You people are so weird! DH slept with my 3 year old DD until a couple of months ago when we finally managed to switch her to her older sister’s room. He also gives my girls a bath, washes them when they go #2 and changes my little one’s night diaper. My dad slept with my sleep walking brother until he started living with his current wife at 26. All of this weird? Weird are the people that see inappropriate behaviors in this. You are the people that are sick or have these disgusting thoughts. 
That said, I am not sure I would want to share my bad every night with my DH’s teen DD...[/quote]

They don't see inappropriate behavior, just inappropriate boundaries. Mostly emotional ones. The daughter is not 3, she is 12. If you don't think it's weird, why did you switch yours to her sister's room?

It's encouraging that the fiance is committed to changing it. The OP was reacting in the moment because it is not usual for American children of that age to sleep with their parents. It's reasonable to be taken aback, especially if it's the opposite sex parent. [/quote]

If that’s true? Then why were people’s le asking what both wore to bed? I wanted my Husband back because I am pregnant and we will need to take care of an infant soon and it would too much with the 3 year old as well. Maybe someone saw the inconvenience (which I totally agree with), but others saw inappropriateness. Why would it matter what they are wearing to bed otherwise? Weird and sick[/quote]

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