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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remember:  A sweet person who just needs to lose some fat, is still a sweet person. If they lose the fat, they will be a thin, sweet person - very attractive.

An azzhole, fat or thin, has no such quick fix.[/quote]
Is your name pollyanna? No amount of sweet can make a fat person attractive. And I can't be attracted to somebody based upon their "potential" to be attractive... if he/she would only lose 50 pounds of ugly fat. Especially if you married that person when they actually WERE a thin/sweet person (like you said, very attractive) and expected them to actually care enough about you/themselves to not go changing in ugly ways.[/quote]

The point is, a person can lose 50 pounds in a matter of months if they put their mind to it.  It's amazing how much people can transform their bodies...

It would be much harder for an ahole to learn empathy and love.  If you married someone because they were "hot" and you really don't value the person inside.....then they may be much better off w/o you.

Age has a way of doing some pretty unattractive things to our bodies even if you never get fat.  Botox can only do so much.  When you genuinely love and support someone you see the beauty in them.  [/quote]

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