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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jeezus, a lot of people are neurotic on here.  He forgets to lock the door - BFD.  OP, if you're so obsessed over it, why don't you do it?  Obviously he doesn't think it's a huge deal and forgets to do it at times.  Unless you're in the city or in a bad area, there's really little reason to get upset over this as the odds of a break in by testing out the front door are incredibly rate.  [/quote]

We are in a city. And he walks the dog after I go to bed (he usually works till the wee hours of the morning). I feel like it would be preposterously neurotic - and pretty unfair - for me to have to get up again after he's back from walking our dog to check the locks that he can very easily lock himself. [b]Basically I am asking him to show me the consideration of taking my safety concern seriously enough to just check the f*cking lock before he turns in for the night. [i][/i][/b][/quote]

OP, you’re turning this into one of those weird he doesn’t love me enough to do xyz arguments.

He’s walking the dog at some ridiculous hour, can’t you walk the dog before you go to bed, and then just ask him to lock the door when he gets home at all?

As it’s clearly important to you, stop making it a test of love. Get your own locks that automatically lock. Walk the dog yourself. Show him the consideration of someone who is working u til the wee hours of the morning and may not as easily come to these things as you do. You k ow, like what you’re demanding of him?[/quote]

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