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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am probably in what you all would call a sexless marriage (maybe once a month).  Married over 20 years, currently have 2 teens.  Early in our marriage, I wanted it way more than DH.  Now, we are reversed.  Why?  I am in peri-menapause, have gained 30 pounds this year (eat clean/healthy, work out 5 days / week, my body has just changed on me suddenly, and it sucks). This makes me self conscious, depressed,  etc.  I do not like my body, so I assume no one else would either.  Not to mention the teens have issues that we are dealing with.  Constantly.  It's draining.

I love my DH, I am just not in a place (physically, emitionally) to want to have sex.  Definitely no interest in sex with anyone else either (including myself).[/quote]

DH here, you may be my wife (probably not, but similar situation).  We have it 1-2x a month but it sucks, it's a mercy session which leaves me feeling worse, but if I say no she also gets mad that I don't just do it.

I have a female friend who has expressed interest in me, I think I can pull it off with her without getting caught.  Wonder if PP would be ok with her DH getting in quietly on the side.[/quote]

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