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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Boys and girls aren't the same. They don't look at sex the same. When I was 13, I would've railed the brains out of an attractive 34 year old woman if she let me.[/quote]

+1  My friends and I would have lined up for a piece of that action.[/quote]

That's not the point.  Yes, boys that age having just gotten through puberty are "raring to go".  But the point is that a mature 34-year old should also know that it is NOT right to take advantage of these children.  They have the sexual maturity, but not the emotional maturity or general maturity to realize the consequences and any problems.  At that point, they are victims to raging hormones and are not ready to get into any type of relationship.  They also don't know enough about the consequences of coitus.  They may intellectually realize that there are dangers, but don't have the maturity to really handle such consequences including the possibility of STDs, pregnancy, and handling an emotional relationship between unequals.

Not only should she have been a mature adult, but as a teacher, that makes her depravity even worse.  She preyed upon an immature child who was victim to his own passage through puberty and she took horrible advantage of him.  Yes, of course he wanted exactly what he got, but now that he is the age she was when they started, he realizes that it wasn't a good thing for him.  She should have known and stopped the child abuse before she raped him.[/quote]

So presumably a bunch of comments were deleted because I am a teacher who previously commented and it's gone but this is the correct response. It is ALWAYS incumbent upon the adult to recognize that kids get crushes, etc BUT YOU DON'T ACT ON THEM. You don't even treat them as real- they aren't! Her comment to him that he was the pursuer? no. If you as an adult notice a little 12 year old has a crush you ignore and minimize until it fades. You don't act and claim they were pursuing you. These are kids. Even if they're in high school- they're kids. Letourneau is like any other adult teacher who gets caught doing this- a very disturbed person with little self worth. Tweens and teens (boys and girls) develop harmless little crushes or think teachers are "cute." That goes absolutely nowhere, as it should, unless the adult in question lacks morals and boundaries and actually takes it as actionable attraction.

And just because many men think they would have been on board with this at12-13 doesn't mean it would have been good for you either. This man's entire life has been ruined because of this. Look who he's chained to. And he was a teen dad. He never got to experience a real relationship with normal dynamics and whatnot. He is STILL being dominated by this woman. It's awful and sick and he is not fortunate for having it happened. [/quote]

This X a million.[/quote]

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