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[quote=Anonymous]Unlike others - I don't think you have DH problem.

I think YOU have the problem. You simply are incapable of communicating to your DH. Your DH has not really changed AT ALL. He has showed you repeatedly that unless pressured you by incessantly he won't even proactively defend you. You on the other had have not been consistent about how you deal with this issue and when DH DOES defend you, you then question whether you were too harsh in asking or his actions - on your behalf - thus setting the reset button on this obvious inappropriate behavior by MIL.

How you feel about this matters. You keep doubting that and your actions and words reflect your doubt. You either stand up for yourself or you don't. You either tell your DH that it's not acceptable, that her apology was insincere and she wasn't apologizing and rather LIED about what she did and that it's not acceptable to you and you either move forward as a couple - or you DON'T.

YOU need to decide if you will put up with a lifetime of a MIL who despises you and a DH who will never defend you and will always take her side.

Get on with it. [/quote]

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