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[quote=Anonymous]Go into it with eyes wide open. The benefits of widower over divorced (I'm a divorced mom here), is that he's done this thing alone. He's been the parent. He's done the being a mature adult caring for kids thing alone. Many divorced men don't and haven't. So I'd take widower over divorced any day. Also, he's not bitter and hateful as many of us divorced parents are. I know since my divorce, I've lost so much trust in people, it's not even worthwhile for me to date, even when I feel alone and lonely. Why mess with what I have now, the peace, the structure, the safety, for the sake of someone who can do to me what my ex did to me again? No thanks. I think you should give this a try. Go into it with eyes wide open. Knowing what you want. Don't make compromises and sacrifices. See if it can be done. If it can work out, great. If not, you tried. What's life about if not a string of mostly failed adventures, anyway. [/quote]
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