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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The crux of the issue is OP willing to be a stepmom or not? If not, then her dating pool is going to be a little bit more limited, since a lot of single guys in their late 30s and early 40s already have kids. If OP is open to stepkids, then this seems like as good of an opportunity as any, since she already knows that she likes the guy. Keep an open mind, don't over promise, and see how it all goes. However, if OP really doesn't want to be a stepmom, best to cut if off now. [/quote] Good point about guys having kids. I'd prefer a widower to a divorced guy any day of the week. Yes, you might have to deal with the "late mom was a saint" issue but I'd take that over kids who come from a broken home and have to go back and forth between two homes. Certainly the family has been through a lot of sadness but hopefully not a lot of hatred.[/quote]
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