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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]update. I recently went to a dinner with DH and his family. Towards the end MIL pulled me aside and gave me a non-apology saying she was sorry my feelings were hurt by some miscommunication.

I looked at her incredulously and said, " I appreciate your apology and it doesn't really matter anymore. But just so you know it is not ok to ambush my little sister and badmouth her about me. She was humiliated for me and came home and cried. And she told me what you had said about me"

She says,  " I did not say anything"

"...So was my sister lying?"

"There was a miscommunication"

At that point we are ushered outside by the rest of the group. I sigh and say, " look it doesn't matter anymore. I appreciate your apology lets move on."

MIL is visibly upset now. SIL comes up to me and asks me why I am pushing their family away. How her mother only has the best of intentions and I am always rude and difficult"

DH comes up and tells her to back off.

I say guys lets drop it. I thank them for dinner and we bid our goodbyes.

When we come home DH is furious at me. He says he is so angry that I would "attack" his mother when she was trying to apologize and I need to make an effort and get along with his family. His parents are old and he doesn't like to see them in distress.

I am furious and don't even know what to say. :(
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We all told you that this is a DH problem more than an IL problem. Now you have proof.[/quote]

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