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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FWIW, When I was young there was an equally young women who I knew casually among a group of friends.  She was attractive and I was attracted.  One night we were in a bar and I was being flirtatious with her.  She excused herself to go to the bathroom and apparently slipped out the back door. After about twenty minutes I figured out that she had ditched me.  The next time I saw her at the bar she was with some friends and I said, what happened to you the other night. [b]She said she had to go home because she had to get up early the next day.[/b]. I said in a poor attempt at humor "that's no excuse" (I know lame). Her response said with utter contempt was "I don't owe you any excuses . . . ." , and a few other rebukes that I can't remember because I was so humiliated after the first round of rebukes, I psychologically blacked out.  I was speechless and just wanted to crawl out of that room.

All these years later I still think her responses were unnecessarily harsh and it still strings.

But, I can tell you this, I never tested those waters ever again.  I don't think a women needs to verbally beat the crap out of a suitor, but I do know a firm verbal rebuke is usually enough to send the message, "you are not romantically welcomed here".[/quote]

Sorry, but you asked for it.  She gave you plenty of clues that she was not interested and you didn't accept it.  People are constantly telling women to be clear and not lead a man on and yet here you are complaining when a woman did just that.  You should have accepted the bolded.  You "attempt" at humor is still no excuse.[/quote]

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