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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP but you saw the warning signs for almost 4 years before you decided to marry this man. You shouldn't of married him. You chose this life. Your DH's family does not like you and likely never will (unless they have a huge change of heart). Stop visiting them! I also don't understand why your DH visits if he has such bad relations with them (i.e. his relationship with his sister). I can only imagine how they'll react if you have children. What does your DH say to them when they treat you bad? Does he stand up for you? Or just tell you to ignore them? I would address this with your DH. He is the issue. He's allowing you to be victimized by his family. His family is allowed to say/do as they please in their home. Why does he allow you to be subject to this?

Is it fair? Nope. Is it right? No. But it's your reality and you chose to be in this dynamic.  [/quote]

DH has at points intervened. He has had talks about them in the beginning to not be racist and be nice. But they claim they do actually love me and want me and are so nice. And they aren't completely wrong. I am included on all major family events. I get nice presents from them. MIL does ask about my life and seems to care how my job and social life is going...but then stuff like what I mentioned above happens and its obvious she is deeply skeptical of me and her intentions become dubious.

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